

I lost my dad suddenly. No warning, no chance to say the things that needed to be said. I carry the guilt and the grief of everything left unsaid, and all the things I wish I'd done differently.
As an only child, I had to plan his funeral alone – overwhelmed, barely functioning, saying yes to decisions I wouldn't make now. The process was impersonal, expensive, and exhausting at the worst possible moment. I had no choice but to get through it.
At his funeral, people stood up and spoke about the kind of man he was – colleagues, students, people whose lives he'd quietly shaped over 30 years of teaching.
A few months after losing my dad, I watched my husband's grandfather choose to go on his own terms. His favourite song was playing and his whole family gathered around him at home. It was heartbreaking and beautiful all at once.
I kept thinking what if we'd created something for him earlier – while he was still well enough to really be there for it?
These experiences reshaped how I think about life and death entirely.
Why do we wait until someone is gone to tell them how we really feel?
Why do we save the most important words for when it's too late to matter?

Based in Perth, Living Wake Co specialises in curating bespoke living wakes – moving away from traditional farewells to focus on the light, the laughter, and the unique legacy of the individual. We ensure families can step back from the logistics and simply be present with the people who matter most.
Planning something this significant during a time of transition is overwhelming. Our mission is to carry that weight for you.
We handle every detail so you and your family can focus on the connection and the stories.







I come from 18 years in the corporate world – and I know firsthand how impersonal systems treat people at their most vulnerable. When I built Living Wake Co, I made a deliberate choice to do things completely differently.
You will deal with one person (me) from your first conversation to the moment the highlight reel lands in your hands. I have genuine heart in this. Not because it's a job, but because I know what it feels like to be on the other side of this moment and wish something like this had existed.
When I’m not working, I’m spending time with my family. As a wife and mother, my favourite moments are the simplest ones — sharing a meal together, heading out fishing or down to the beach, or spending weekends on the sidelines watching my girls play soccer.
Those everyday moments have taught me that life isn’t measured by achievements or busy schedules, but by the people we share it with and the memories we create along the way.
Every living wake starts with a conversation. There's no pressure – just a chance to explore what this could look like for you and your family.
The celebration of your life shouldn't wait until it's over.
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ABN: 72 695 707 950
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